#156 #HowIMessenger: Going Radio Silent without the Guilt with Shawnrey Notto

#156 #HowIMessenger: Going Radio Silent without the Guilt with Shawnrey Notto

When we got stay-home orders and the online space overflowed with voices offering support, my own voice felt the need to go SILENT.

And so did Empowerment Coach Shawnrey Notto’s.

Yet, as a leader, she felt the pressure to stand up and be out there for her people.

For fifteen years, Shawnrey has used her roles as coach, speaker, professional dancer-choroegrapher, yoga instructor, emcee, and facilitator to create transformative experiences where women discover gifts and power they never thought they had, or thought they had lost forever.

Her love is helping leaders tap into their sensual selves to be more embodied.

…AND she instinctively knew what she needed was to be quiet and go inward before speaking out publicly.

She could have judged that feeling or felt guilty. (I certainly did.) But she used her own work and connection to her message to give herself introvert time to come back to herself.

…When, finally, she emerged from her cocoon, ready to use her voice, she intuitively knew what she needed to do to serve her people.

Listen in to hear Shawnrey’s story.

This is the first of a new #HowIMessenger podcast series. It’s my hope that hearing how other Messengers are coping with what’s going on and how it’s affecting them using their voices will help YOU stop beating yourself up and remain inspired, empowered to take action, and not feeling alone.

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What’s your struggle or celebration with using your voice during these uncertain times? Let me know in the comments over on Instagram.


Hi! I’M ADRIA DECORTE, M.S., Message Clarity Coach

Drawing on my experience as a TEDx speaker and my architecture background, I help women coaches make a message that feels messy CLEAR so they can reach more people, scale their business, and start a movement.


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Hi! I’M ADRIA SOPHIA, Message Clarity Guide, TEDx Speaker, and host of the Quiet Messenger Podcast. I lead cozy Messenger Masterminds where I help introverted women leaders & sensitive souls tap into the message that moves them then clearly & courageously share it so they can call in their people…and their next level of impact.